so it has been a while since i share you my vague, debatable, endless thoughts.
imperial has kept me busy with its never ending coursework. but oh well, that is life.
and i never fail to laugh when i thought of what theo and chris said, "4 years of severe hard work! ill be speechless if we're not rich by 25".. indeed. definite truth.
anyway, im not going to overwhelm my blog with stressful post.. although i have to admit some are. maybe shakespeare has been living his life with tranquility. cos i realised, writing never fails to neutralise our emotion.. be it depressive, joyful or serious.
it's like the energy balance you know. accumulation of energy is never too good.
considering an open system, energy in must equal energy out. or even for a close system, energy in has to be used to generate work or heat since it can't be let out. similarly, writing is one of the method to let it out.
pardon me for being geeky. blame it on the spring test that's approaching. it's no longer around the corner, i think it's right in front! i could feel the heat! let's not talk about pressure.
this post i wish to talk on issues relating perceptions and judgements. it is a common problem for all of us. something that always lingers in my head. why can we be so judgemental at times?
maybe it is the culture influence. the way we were brought up. perhaps.
but i'd say, it's the way we wish to think.
we're experience and logical enough to understand why different people act differently.
we don't want to be judged. that's a fairly known fact.
even though we ourselves assume, judge then conclude.
if you want to be loved for who you are. love them for who they are.
just because they are a murderer, it doesnt make them evil or heartless. have you thought of why?
just because they have an indecent photo uploaded, it does not make them a non-virgin.
just because they can't fit in, it does not make them uncool.
if we ourselves dont dare to ask for clarification, then why do we even dare to assume and conclude?
we talk of freedom of choice and respect.
we think we practice them well. fair enough. but do we really? then why question one's decision on their personal life? when you won't live theirs in the first place. no doubt we have our own opinion, but have we considered theirs?
maturity is the one characteristic you look for in a partner. however are you?
we moan and complain. we hope to be heard. but we never give attention. we wish they would understand..
we say, 'noooo that is so shallow.. you're so narrow minded'. but don't you think we are as well for not accepting their views?
finally, tolerance, give and take, have we ever truly practice them? if yes, why fight to win? simply cos a win-win situation is always a lost to each side. think about it - why are you never happy with the agreement you have come upon?
dont you just think sometimes, we tend to judge by gendre? playboys are treated with high regards, marked as cool, but a sexy famous girl is dangerous? and a prostitute is more disgusting than a male stripper? househusbands are embarassing. but a successful career lady is doing too much. ???!!??
and when i lay down..
i finally come to a conclusion. nobody is perfect.
we could only improve for a better self.
and you thought, could the world get any better? could there be a world with negligible amount of judgemental individuals? i guess, it will always be a no.
because i figured we can never start with a neutral judgement. it has always have to be one sided. then, you outweigh it with other possibilities until u reach the neutral line. and that's the stage when u say, "ahhh whatever, it's their life!"
(sorry about the cheesy photo!)
